MY DOCTOR IGNORED MY PAIN FOR MONTHS—THE FORGOTTEN TEST RESULTS JUST DESTROYED HIS CAREER For six months, Dr. Graham told me the crippling pain in my side was just anxiety. He literally patted my hand during one visit and told me women my age tend to “somatize their stress.” He suggested I try yoga. I’m 54. I know what a panic attack feels like. This wasn’t it. This was a hot, sharp, constant pain that made it hard to sleep, hard to work, hard to live. I begged him for a scan, for anything. He j