Why monogamous people are triggered by us just existing. #polyamory
1:20
Why monogamous people are triggered by us just existing. #pol…
590 views3 months ago
TikToksoulfulpoly
From my latest meetup on dating monogamous people as a poly/ENM person. I talk about what to watch out for and expect from this dynamic, common pitfalls that cause these relationships to end, and how to make the most out of the relationship, if you choose to engage at all. Subscribe to my Patreon to access the full recording! • • • #enm #poly #polyamory #polycurious #polycuriouspodcast
0:39
From my latest meetup on dating monogamous people as a poly/EN…
1K views3 months ago
TikTokpolycurious
It’s always telling when monogamous people start asking about polyamory and open relationships. You can hear it in their questions—how does it work, what’s it like, how do you manage it? They’re not horrified or skeptical; they’re genuinely curious, trying to imagine themselves in a different relationship paradigm. It’s not just idle curiosity. It’s an itch, a little nudge from that part of themselves that wonders if there’s more to love and connection than what they’ve been taught. It’s like th
0:16
It’s always telling when monogamous people start asking …
31.6K viewsMar 6, 2025
Facebookdecolonizing.love
Many monogamous people who haven’t spent time in polyamorous communities assume that polyamorists are somehow immoral or undisciplined, largely because they’ve been taught that monogamy is the only valid way to express love. From a young age, most of us are socialized to equate exclusivity with devotion, possession with loyalty, and sexual restraint with moral integrity. In that framework, anyone who practices love outside those bounds is framed as unstable, selfish, or ruled by desire. But poly
0:10
Many monogamous people who haven’t spent time in polyamorou…
8.5K views6 months ago
Facebookdecolonizing.love
Top tip: if you’re polyamorous, do NOT go to your monogamous friends for relationship advice. 99% of the time, they will view your situation through a mononormative lens and blame polyamory for all the problems you experiencing, or express confusion about why you are “putting yourself through this” when it would be “so much easier” to just go back to monogamy. There are some monogamous people who are open minded enough to think beyond such a narrow world view where all your problems could be fix
0:09
Top tip: if you’re polyamorous, do NOT go to your monogamous frie…
6.5K viewsApr 23, 2025
FacebookPoly Philia
Being poly doesn’t mean you have to be currently dating anyone actually. Polyamory is an orientation, so some poly people are single, some are polysaturated at one partner, and most poly folks I know can’t realistically sustain more than three attachment-based relationships. A lot of poly people might want additional partners, but the dating scene is bleak to many, monogamous and polyamorists alike albeit for different reasons. ⭐️ Follow for more polyamory from a decolonization lens #polyamory #
0:08
Being poly doesn’t mean you have to be currently dating anyone actu…
147.8K views4 months ago
Facebookdecolonizing.love
People often wish there were a magic pill to help a monogamous partner embrace polyamory, but real transformation doesn’t work like that. Shifting from a monogamous mindset to understanding and accepting polyamory is a layered, deeply personal process. It takes time, trust, and a willingness to engage with discomfort. The most powerful starting point is open, honest dialogue—conversations that are rooted in empathy, not persuasion, and that honor both your truth and your partner’s boundaries. Co
2:44
People often wish there were a magic pill to help a monogamous …
6.4K views11 months ago
Facebookdecolonizing.love
0:18
Making a mono-poly relationship work requires patience from both …
13.8K views6 months ago
Facebookdecolonizing.love
0:12
Navigating Polyamory in a Monogamous World
662.6K viewsNov 1, 2022
TikTokyoupolyaintready
0:11
Dating a polyamorist can be scary because monogamy is often seen …
90K viewsJul 8, 2024
Facebookdecolonizing.love
0:06
Understanding Polyamory: Challenges of Dating Monogamou…
2.5K views5 months ago
TikTokinfinitepolyam
0:56
Many polyamorists frequently encounter the challenge of dating …
13.3K viewsMar 7, 2025
Facebookdecolonizing.love
0:46
What is the number one newbie mistake by people who are either …
50K viewsAug 30, 2023
TikTokletstalkpolyamory
0:13
People new to polyamory often ask where to find partners, especially …
12K viewsFeb 13, 2025
Facebookdecolonizing.love
0:07
I’m 27 years old and have been actively non-monogamous since I …
5.3K views9 months ago
FacebookPoly Philia
0:31
Dating multiple people doesn’t make you progressive, it’s about how yo…
4.9K viewsApr 16, 2025
FacebookPoly Philia
0:40
Dating Monogamous People Can Hold Them Back Ready
126 views3 months ago
YouTubePolycurious
1:08
Why I Stopped Dating Monogamous Men
76 views2 months ago
YouTubePolycurious
9:53
Why Do Monogamous People Judge Poly?
2 months ago
YouTubeThe BLC Pod
1:29
Is monogamy really just a socially acceptable form of denial? 🗣️ Jus…
271 views2 months ago
TikToktheblcpod
Decolonizing Love on Instagram: "Many monogamous people who …
71.9K views6 months ago
Instagramdecolonizing.love
6:51
What About Polyamory?
393.5K viewsFeb 14, 2019
YouTubeThe School of Life
18:38
Monogamy, explained
1.9M viewsMay 23, 2018
YouTubeVox
21:25
Polyamory Explained: Understanding Various Relationsh…
22.9K viewsMay 10, 2020
YouTubeBranded By Lola
5:02
Why Be Monogamous? | Earth Science
136.9K viewsMay 7, 2015
YouTubeBBC Earth Science
23:48
Beyond 'The One': Exploring Modern Polyamory
1.2M viewsFeb 14, 2019
YouTubeNew York Magazine
2:42
Meet the married, polyamorous throuple
384.9K viewsApr 9, 2019
YouTubePinkNews
5:49
8 Signs Polyamory is for You
757.4K viewsApr 11, 2019
YouTubePsych2Go
9:54
What Can YOU Learn From This Polyamorous Relationship? - The I…
147.3K viewsFeb 28, 2020
YouTubeFOX Soul
4:10
What is Polyamory? - Esther Perel & Margie Nichols
135.9K viewsJul 10, 2018
YouTubeEsther Perel
See more videos
Static thumbnail place holder