A very common adaptation to childhood trauma is for individuals to engage in self blame and try to alter their behaviors in order to achieve a different result or outcome. For children, often it is easier to believe that if something is wrong in the environment, it must be them, which leaves them with a sense of hope, and avoids the realization that the caregiver or parental figure is limited, or cannot be what is needed for the child This adaptation can carry over into adulthood, where instead
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A very common adaptation to childhood trauma is for individuals to engage in self blame and try to alter their behaviors in order to achieve a different result or outcome. For children, often it is easier to believe that if something is wrong in the environment, it must be them, which leaves them with a sense of hope, and avoids the realization that the caregiver or parental figure is limited, or cannot be what is needed for the child This adaptation can carry over into adulthood, where instead
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And having trauma is normal. I’m not shaming anybody for having trauma. It’s just the fact that most the MEN, I have PERSONALLY experienced use their trauma as an excuse. Never self-reflect or ask themselves the WHYs and HOWs. Never seek professional help. Always want to blame others around them. Never take real accountability or the initiative it takes to TRULY CHANGE. It’s exhausting and I’m over it, truly. If I DO HAPPEN to come across a good man with trauma, PLEASE for the love of everything
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And having trauma is normal. I’m not shaming anybody for having trauma. It’s just the fact that most the MEN, I have PERSONALLY experienced use their trauma as an excuse. Never self-reflect or ask themselves the WHYs and HOWs. Never seek professional help. Always want to blame others around them. Never take real accountability or the initiative it takes to TRULY CHANGE. It’s exhausting and I’m over it, truly. If I DO HAPPEN to come across a good man with trauma, PLEASE for the love of everything
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