While putting together Bustle’s weeklong inquiry into the pleasure and pain of crushes, we noticed a few things. First, some of you are low-key freaks. Second, talking about crushes can bring people ...

Q. I read the recent letter “I’ve Had the Same Work Crush for Years” and noticed that most of the commenters wanted to talk about the fact that the letter writer had told their spouse about the crush.

Love can be complicated, especially when you’re trying to figure out if what you feel is true love or just a crush. A crush usually starts because you’re physically or emotionally attracted to someone ...

I have a crush, I think, on my friend at college. We’re both on Hinge because we’re both trying to find relationships. The thing is, we’ve been messaging a bit of a while, but I don’t know if he’s ...

Molly and Peter have been dating for five years and are in a committed and happy relationship. One day, Peter accidentally overhears Molly talking to a friend about having a massive crush on the ...